Oct 09 2008
Honesty. On the 1st Date or 6mo later?
I’d like to start by saying……thanks because I’m new to this site….. (hand claps_________oh yes) and frankly, I usually don’t allow others to hear my thoughts unless I accidently speak out loud. I feel that its now time to change all of that. I’d like to know if there is truly a time line for honesty when dating an individual.
Lets face it: my dating life sucks!!! I don’t think you should let EVERYTHING out of the bag on the 1st date, but fellas, if you have 10 children, a wife that you’re currently separated from; don’t you think thats something you should tell the woman you are dating? Why take that choice away from her?
I mean don’t get me wrong. Usually the first date consists of getting to know a person, i.e. your likes and dislikes, who you live with, do you drive a car, etc. BUT AT THE SAME TIME, if you have something that won’t go away like HERPES, MARRIAGE…, I think its only fair for you to share that information. Have it over dinner or something, I don’t know. Its got to be a way to throw that in there: “I have 1 cat, 2 dogs, a fish named Wanda, herpes and a wife I call Jaqueline.” Personally, don’t really care how you do it, just get it out of the way.
Thank you. I am the truth speaker and I approve this message.
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